tbh ouran is super interesting in that way; it was at the time but also looking at it now, 15-20 years later. i'm super glad you found your way, though. haruhi is and will always be a queen!!!
it should be easy enough in that case! you can imagine tamaki at first very enthusiastically trying to get zuko involved in things, then slowing down to knocking on his door for invitations regularly but not with the added zany pressure. "he will come out when he wants to, but i'm here to extend the hand when he wants to take it," that vibe. and hikaru would likely not be enthused to include him in that case too, so it all works out.
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it should be easy enough in that case! you can imagine tamaki at first very enthusiastically trying to get zuko involved in things, then slowing down to knocking on his door for invitations regularly but not with the added zany pressure. "he will come out when he wants to, but i'm here to extend the hand when he wants to take it," that vibe. and hikaru would likely not be enthused to include him in that case too, so it all works out.