that's understandable, both would be Big...also look he enjoys fights most when there's something important on the line and that ranges from someone's ideals or some emotional thing that's deeply important to them to lives on the line, don't judge his bad life choices

this is true...at least they solved their problems but then ren still occasionally shitposts at them about it afterwards, like the time his summation of his and aichi's relationship in season 1 as "some of it was a hassle, but mostly it was fun" (bearing in mind season 1 was "mostly" ren mindfucking and corrupting aichi), or that other time he starts using a new version of the unit that was his big gun while he was a villain and kai mentions it bringing back painful memories and ren's just out here like. kai you went powermad last season and brainwashed my ass don't act like i'm always the one victimising you